Should you wear your engagement or wedding ring first? This is a common question with a simple answer rooted in tradition: the wedding ring is worn first, closest to the heart, followed by the engagement ring. However, personal preference and modern trends also play a role.
Historically, the act of wearing rings as a representation of love and commitment dates back to ancient Egyptian civilization over 4,800 years ago. The tradition stems from the Egyptians associating the unbroken circle with eternity, which inspired them to initiate the tradition of wearing braided wire bands on one’s left ring finger. Over time, this custom has been passed down through generations and transformed into what we honour today.
Traditional Order of Wearing Rings
The convention is that the wedding band should be worn closest to the heart on the left ring finger, then the engagement ring, illustrating its direct link to one’s affection. It’s meant to show lifelong devotion through marriage, with the engagement ring positioned above it as a marker of the commitment promised in the lead-up to marriage. The stacking order of these rings is widely adhered to and narrates a couple’s transition from betrothal to matrimonial unity.
At Stelios Jewellers, we design our wedding bands to fit uniquely with your engagement ring, creating a unique bespoke set. Some clients opt to wear their wedding band on the other hand to allow their engagement ring to sit on its own, alternatively they can be worn together as a set.
There is no right or wrong way to wear your rings, your comfort and personal taste are what matter most. Another trend is the ability to mix and match and dress your rings up or down depending on how you feel or if you’re going to an event. Our designers can create a set that can easily be re-shuffled to create the look that you want for that particular event. Stackable wedding bands have become increasingly popular, allowing for a personalized and unique look.
Individuals may choose to take off their engagement and wedding bands during certain activities that could cause harm, like playing sports or engaging in strenuous labour, but they still desire a way to signify their marital commitment. To accommodate this need while prioritizing comfort and safety, wearing rings on a necklace or as individual items is frequently chosen.
Combined Engagement and Wedding Rings
Our designers have been designing all-in-one engagement and wedding rings. This is a modern approach to the traditional engagement ring and wedding band. It allows freedom of design and there is no need to try and design two rings to fit together.
For individuals who favour simplicity or aim to minimize the quantity of jewellery they wear daily, combined rings are an attractive choice. They present the ease of sporting just one ring while still representing crucial life events like engagements and weddings typically marked by two separate rings. This efficient yet sophisticated option means your ring consistently conveys your love’s entire narrative with elegance and poise.
Symbolism Behind Ring Placement
The custom of donning a ring on the fourth finger of one’s left hand has its origins in an enduring legend, which holds that this specific finger harbours a vein leading straight to the heart—known as the “vena amoris” or love vein. This poetic belief reinforces why engagement and wedding rings are traditionally worn there. It signifies their connection with matters of the heart.
Cultural Variations in Ring Order
The placement of rings can vary significantly due to cultural influences. For example:
- Engagement rings in India are often placed on the right hand and commonly incorporate vibrant gemstones.
- In Brazil, brides wear simple bands on their right hands during engagement before moving them to the left finger post-wedding, signifying their transition from engaged life into marriage.
- Eastern European traditions frequently dictate that the engagement ring be worn on the right hand, reflecting distinctive regional customs.
In Chile, both individuals in a partnership don an engagement ring as a testament to mutual commitment. While Middle Eastern countries typically favour gold for such rings as it represents prosperity and safeguarding. Conversely, Japanese culture is known for its affinity towards refined simplicity within its design of engagement bands.
Incorporating Eternity Rings
Typically, eternity rings are presented during significant moments within a relationship such as anniversaries and the birth of a baby. They are often worn alongside two rings—the engagement ring and wedding band. These rings conventionally come after the engagement ring and wedding band on one’s finger, symbolizing an ongoing partnership beyond these initial commitments. The usual sequence is to don the wedding band closest to the heart, then place the engagement ring next to it followed by the eternity ring, thereby reflecting love’s progression from proposal through marriage to lifelong devotion.
Creating Your Tradition
Embracing a personalized approach to how you sport your engagement and wedding rings can be an intimate reflection of your distinctive partnership. The essence lies in what these bands represent to you both, rather than conforming rigidly to conventional customs. Whether it is following the traditional sequence of wearing each ring or crafting an entirely new custom for yourself, its true value resides in what these pieces symbolize for you as a couple.
When it comes to wearing your engagement ring and wedding band, there are a few final tips and considerations to keep in mind. Here are some key takeaways to help you make the most of your ring-wearing experience:
- Consider Your Personal Style: Think about your daily activities, lifestyle, and personal preferences when deciding how to wear your engagement ring and wedding band. If you work with your hands or engage in activities that may damage your rings, you may want to consider wearing them on different fingers or taking them off during certain activities.
- Think About the Occasion: Depending on the occasion, you may want to wear your engagement ring and wedding band in a specific order or on a specific finger. Stackable rings can easily dress up your ring set.
- Don’t Forget About the Eternity Ring: If you have an eternity ring, consider how you want to incorporate it into your ring-wearing routine. You may want to wear it on special occasions or milestones, or as a symbol of your everlasting love. The eternity ring can be a beautiful addition to your engagement ring and wedding band, adding another layer of meaning to your collection.
- Keep Your Rings Clean and Maintained: Regularly clean and maintain your engagement ring and wedding band to keep them looking their best. At Stelios Jewellers, we will clean your rings at no cost for life. Our jewellers will also check over your rings to ensure the stones are still tight and that the ring is wearing well. We may suggest to get them re-plated to give them that shine they had when you first got them.
- Ultimately, It’s Up to You: Remember, there’s no one “right” way to wear your engagement ring and wedding band. Ultimately, the decision is up to you and your personal preference.
At Stelios Jewellers, we understand the significance of choosing the perfect engagement and wedding rings that symbolize your unique love story. Our exquisite collection offers a wide range of designs to suit every style and preference. Whether you prefer traditional elegance or contemporary flair, our expert jewellers and designers are here to help you find the perfect wedding, eternity or engagement rings that reflect your journey.
Visit Stelios Jewellers today and let us assist you in designing and selecting the perfect rings that will be cherished for a lifetime. Experience the beauty and craftsmanship of our stunning pieces and make your special moments unforgettable.
Explore our collection online or visit us Perth jewellery store to discover the exceptional quality and service that Stelios Jewellers is known for. Your perfect rings await—let us be a part of your love story.
